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	<description>Ruminations on, Economics,  Ecology, Hi-Tech, Life</description>
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		<title>Caroline D Bradley Convention</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Apr 2010 02:20:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>tomh</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;"> </p> <p>I&#8217;ve been enjoying once again the company of the Caroline D Bradley Scholarship convention. It&#8217;s a funny feeling that these four years have gone by so fast.  It was great to see old friends again, and note the absence of families from previous years -  a sign that we too are [...]]]></description>
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<p>I&#8217;ve been enjoying once again the company of the <a href="http://www.educationaladvancement.org">Caroline D Bradley Scholarship</a> convention. It&#8217;s a funny feeling that these four years have gone by so  fast.  It was great to see old friends again, and note the absence of families from previous years -  a sign that we too are about to finish this phase of the adventure.  For those of you who don&#8217;t know, the CDB scholarship is a nationwide competition from the Institute for Educational Advancement for seventh graders that seeks to identify gifted kids and provide them with financial and educational support in high school, and guidance through the college application process.  Besides sponsoring the kids&#8217; private school education, it puts on these annual conventions where all the families meet, and provides individual consultation and support as well.  We learned about the scholarship by chance, and it was a mighty struggle for Ida to do the SAT, write the myriad essays and such. It was essentially a college application in seventh grade. When we got the word she had made the cut for the final round we were so excited, and boy we were all nervous driving to San Francisco for the interview. But she handled it with great coolness.  Like for everyone else it seemed almost a dream when she won.  That embarked us on a great journey, encountering the other CDB families, going to the conventions, picking a high school, the letters and talks with Bonnie Raskin, the famous television producer who started a second career as head of the CDB scholarship, the dedication of Betsy Jones in conceiving and running the program, the hard work of the IEA staff, and of course  the mind-blowing education Ida has received at Castilleja school.</p>
<p>So every year, we learn a little more about the donor and her amazing commitment to  education; and our appreciation for all that the Institute for  Educational Advancement has done grows ever deeper.    As one of the parents said, it must be part of God&#8217;s plan for all this to happen.</p>
<p>Anyhow, besides listening to serious talks on psychology and education, we&#8217;ve been having a lot of fun &#8211; had an architectural tour of Boston this afternoon by one of the parents who&#8217;s an architecture professor at Yale. We also discussed the merits of various Korean soap operas at dinner.  The kids have been bonding too &#8212; even though they don&#8217;t see each other that often, increasingly facebook ties them together. Obviously we have two big clumps &#8211; the andover/exeter faction, and the bay area folks, but it&#8217;s not cliquish at all and the group meshes well.  Listening to the seniors give their talks is so amazing &#8211; they&#8217;ve grown   so much.  One of the great ideas this year is to really organize a  parent alumni organization to keep the families in touch, and to provide  ongoing support for the institute, and find ways of paying back some of  this incredible debt we now owe.</p>
<p>So if you have a bright child in the sixth grade &#8212; you should think about having them apply for the scholarship next year.  It might change your child&#8217;s life, and yours too!</p>
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		<title>Avatar Movie</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Dec 2009 16:40:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>tomh</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Last night we went and saw Avatar. This is the most beautiful movie any of us have seen in ages; it&#8217;s a completely magical experience.  The creation of a world so gorgeous and inviting even as it is dangerous sucks one in. It&#8217;s like one of those BBC nature documentaries but about something much better. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="www.avatarmovie.com"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-309" title="wallpaper_07_800x600" src="http://hempelpai.com/wp/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/wallpaper_07_800x600-300x225.jpg" alt="avatar movie" width="300" height="225" /></a>Last night we went and saw Avatar. This is the most beautiful movie any of us have seen in ages; it&#8217;s a completely magical experience.  The creation of a world so gorgeous and inviting even as it is dangerous sucks one in. It&#8217;s like one of those BBC nature documentaries but about something much better. Even once you get beyond the sensory overload of this universe one enters a simple story, that&#8217;s still compelling.  It&#8217;s a mark of the greatness of the film making that even though we dont naturally find 10 foot tall blue aliens attractive, by the end of the movie they are attractive. We are made to believe.</p>
<p>The story itself is believable. It shows two groups who have little understanding of one another. The humans  have great technology, but generally not enough curiosity to get beyond their assumptions. And their ignorance of this world turns into a blind fear which in turn begets hate and violence.  A lot of this part of the story is about the loss of moral compass, and what it does to otherwise fairly decent people.   The real kink in the story is that superficially it feels like cowboys and indians &#8211; and that&#8217;s certainly what the humans in the story believe &#8211; except that where in real life the indians were hopelessly outmatched by the white man, in fact these folks discover only very late in the story that their basic assumptions are completely wrong &#8211; that in fact what they view as quaint and simple is actually  part of something vastly more complex, threatening and ultimately overpowering.</p>
<p>All this said, it&#8217;s a very feel good movie &#8211; you know the boy has to get the girl, and it&#8217;s all so pretty to look at.  But the combination of eye candy, romance and some real thoughts make into a very satisfying experience.  We all said we wanted to see it again, that&#8217;s what an intense experience it was for us, and that&#8217;s not something any of us say very often.</p>
<p>So do yourself a favor and go see it!</p>
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		<title>Hiking the Pinnacles</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Nov 2009 17:11:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>tomh</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Friday Ida and I recovered from the annual thanksgiving food binge by doing a nice loop at Pinnacles National Monument, my wife having bowed out declaring our ambitions too strenuous. We left early and were the very first car in the parking lot on the Soledad side at 8:15 in the morning. It had rained [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Friday Ida and I recovered from the annual thanksgiving food binge by doing a nice loop at Pinnacles National Monument, my wife having bowed out declaring our ambitions too strenuous. We left early and were the very first car in the parking lot on the Soledad side at 8:15 in the morning. It had rained most of the drive, but interestingly it was completely dry inside the park.  Our route took us up the top of the Pinnacles via the High Peaks trail, then down the other side into the west end of the park, then looping around back to the entrance via the North Wilderness trail. The route is about 13 miles, requiring two steep climbs, and usually take us about five hours.</p>
<p>The steep climb up the pinnacles is rewarded by amazing views. We were just admiring the view when I asked Ida what those white wisps were, and inside of two minutes the view vanished as we were encased in fog.  So we got moving again, and as we hiked downwards we got underneath the fog.</p>
<p><a href="http://hempelpai.com/wp/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/011.JPG"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-296" title="pinnacles-fog" src="http://hempelpai.com/wp/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/011-300x225.jpg" alt="pinnacles-fog" width="300" height="225" /></a>The fog gradually lifted and we got an alternation of clouds, threats of rain and bits of sunshine.  As we crossed onto the wilderness trail we were soon reminded of why it&#8217;s called that. The trail is poorly marked and you have to find your way by looking for these odd little rock piles.</p>
<p><a href="http://hempelpai.com/wp/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/015.JPG"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-297" title="rock pile" src="http://hempelpai.com/wp/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/015-300x225.jpg" alt="rock pile" width="300" height="225" /></a>More than once we needed to look for them to figure out where the trail was. Oh yes, and then we heard a tell tale crunch in the bush, a crunch I&#8217;ve heard before, and I looked closely into the bushes and saw hiding in the distance the fur of a large tan colored animal, presumably looking back at me. I&#8217;m fairly sure it was a mountain lion, because I&#8217;ve had such encounters before, but fortunately we all went our seperate ways. The rough trail makes it hard work to hike. You&#8217;re either wallowing in sand, clambering across rocks, pushing through brush wondering where the trail is, or jumping across fallen logs. But since the trail follows a river valley you can&#8217;t really get lost because it&#8217;s fairly obvious which way the trail has to go. Finally there&#8217;s a really steep climb to cross a ridge to get back to the parking lot.</p>
<p>The scenery is amazing &#8211; it has a wildness to it that our local redwood forest just doesn&#8217;t match. You really feel you&#8217;re far away from everything.</p>
<p><a href="http://hempelpai.com/wp/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/014.JPG"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-298" title="wilderness trail" src="http://hempelpai.com/wp/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/014-300x225.jpg" alt="wilderness trail" width="300" height="225" /></a>As we got close to the parking lot it finally started to rain. So we put our jackets, which stopped the rain. Oddly, when a few minutes later we got to the picnic area there were now people there, and having a picnic too! Puzzled, we asked them, did it rain? And they said it hadn&#8217;t. So we got a real microburst. All in all it was a fine way to spend a day in one of America&#8217;s really great landscapes.</p>
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		<title>He was a friend of mine&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 15:18:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I went to the funeral of a best friend the other day.  As with many such memorials it was bittersweet &#8211; nice seeing a lot of old friends, and sad to say goodbye both a friend as well as a chapter in my life.</p> <p>Two decades ago he was a new imimgrant to America and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I went to the funeral of a best friend the other day.  As with many such memorials it was bittersweet &#8211; nice seeing a lot of old friends, and sad to say goodbye both a friend as well as a chapter in my life.</p>
<p>Two decades ago he was a new imimgrant to America and one of my other friends at work hired him. He was brilliant, and soon learnt all about American culture. He also had a good heart, and the three of us soon became fast friends.  We loved nothing better than coding and discussing technology. Eventually together with another acquaitance formed a company.  The best part about the company were the summer trips. To reward the families for putting up with our long hours we organized week long vacations for all of us and our somewhat extended families. Sometimes we went camping by a lake &#8211; one year we even all took a cruise together.  These were great adventures. The families got to know each other, and we watched our children grow up together.</p>
<p>Then the .com boom came, and we went our separate ways, but still stayed in touch. But something wasn&#8217;t right for my friend.  First he left his wife, then he moved to Asia and became a nomad &#8211; doing training, and going wherever the clients were. Vietnam, Australia, Illinois, it was all the same. He had no fixed address. I could only reach him through his work email.  Once we met in Bangalore, going bar hopping &#8211; but needing a cab to go from hotel to hotel for lack of sidewalks. Last summer we had lunch again when he was back here. He seemed happy. Little did I know I would never see him again.  Not too long thereafter he failed to show up for a conference.  No one heard from him again. No one even knew which country he was in. Abrubtly a few weeks ago his son got a call from the US embassy in Manila &#8211; his dad&#8217;s body had been found in a hotel.  Now they have a box of ashes, it looks the ones we have our dead pets in, and not even an autopsy report. Oddly, there&#8217;s no clear way of knowing if that box even has my friend in it. So it was a funny ending &#8211; he vanished and was found, or was he? Or is he playing some kind of joke on us, and simply wanted to vanish altogether? It&#8217;s all hard to say.</p>
<p>He was a great guy, but liked to keep his secrets, and had a bold nature not above unforeseen and extreme thoughts. As weird as it is to us, I bet he is smiling at all this.</p>
<p>What&#8217;s left are his kids, now a bunch of wonderful young adults, really nice people. He and his wife did good there!</p>
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		<title>Philosophy Made Useful</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Nov 2009 16:05:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>tomh</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>When I was an undergraduate I remember once a student asking a famous visiting philosophy professor, known for his work in philosophy of science, about questions dealing with the meaning of life. He looked puzzled at the question, and harumphed that this wasn&#8217;t really a proper activity for philosophers at all, he preferred to stick [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I was an undergraduate I remember once a student asking a famous visiting philosophy professor, known for his work in philosophy of science, about questions dealing with the meaning of life. He looked puzzled at the question, and harumphed that this wasn&#8217;t really a proper activity for philosophers at all, he preferred to stick to nice rigorously logical things.  Now it&#8217;s true that figuring out how to make an argument clearly and logically, and understanding why a proposition is true, false, decidable, unknowable, etc., are some of the key low level disciplines of philosophy, at the same time they aren&#8217;t sufficient for defining the scope of philosophy.  If we think of philosophy as an interdisciplinary field involving critically asking how we understand and think about different activities, we realize that while philosophy of science and math is certainly a vital field, but ultimately the most interesting question in philosophy comes back to ourselves:  How should we live?</p>
<p>The philosophers who really thought about that  lot are the ones who&#8217;ve stuck with me over the years. At the same time, when I look around in daily life, what I notice is that there is no philosophical discourse at all.  Our culture is centered on entertainment and anesthesia, it does not encourage us to ask the really hard questions.  On top of that, most people aren&#8217;t used to asking these questions, so that even if they encounter them,  they don&#8217;t find it easy or appealing.</p>
<p>Some months ago  I obtained some fresh insights. My wife had been introduced by a friend to the <a href="http://www.mppc.org">Menlo Park Presbyterian Church</a> where she was very impressed by <a href="http://www.johnortberg.com/">John Ortberg</a>&#8216;s <a href="http://mppc.org/learn/sermons">sermons</a>. Curious, I went along, and it struck a chord with me. He really does a great job of introducing complex questions and rendering them in a simple and often entertaining way, and gets people to really attack some of the hard questions in their life. What is changeable, and what is permanent? What can we control, and what can&#8217;t we? What options do we have even when there don&#8217;t seem to be options?  And beyond these seeming abstract issues, it comes down to, how do we treat each other? How can we make a positive difference? Where do we find hope? How do we give hope? What struck me in listening each sunday was the extent to which the ideas presented resonated with a lot of thoughts I&#8217;ve had on my own.  Obviously as a pretty large institution MPPC is many things to many people, and provides many services, (too bad we didn&#8217;t know about it when our daughter was little&#8230;), but for this amateur philosopher it provides a good community to further spiritual, ethical and intellectual growth.</p>
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		<title>More Books Coming!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Jun 2009 04:26:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>After two years working on our first book, Leading and Managing in Silicon Valley, we&#8217;ve got two more books coming out this summer alone! Excellent Leader is quite busy.  First up is Interstices by Mark Moulton, which collects forty years of his poetry writing. These are truly special and memorable poems, and it&#8217;s got a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>After two years working on our first book, <a href="http://leadingmanagingsiliconvalley.com">Leading and Managing in Silicon Valley</a>, we&#8217;ve got two more books coming out this summer alone! Excellent Leader is quite busy.  First up is Interstices by <a href="http://www.ffpi.org  ">Mark Moulton</a>, which collects forty years of his poetry writing. These are truly special and memorable poems, and it&#8217;s got a couple of his amazing paintings on the cover. I&#8217;m really excited about this one! The next one will stay a surprise for now, but will be really cool too, I promise! The fun part about having set up a publishing company is that once one knows how, it&#8217;s really pretty easy to publish more books.  And it&#8217;s great helping other people express themselves, and get their ideas out there!</p>
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		<title>Selling the book</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 23 May 2009 14:07:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>In the meantime we&#8217;ve got our book in hardcover on Amazon and Barnes&#38;Noble, as well as the Kindle version.  So having published it we need to publicize it.  We got an initial order of 256 from the printer, which arrive one afternoon on my driveway as a mountain of boxes. My wife was immediately skeptical [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In the meantime we&#8217;ve got our book in hardcover on <a href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615283659?tag=leadandmanain-20">Amazon</a> and <a href="http://search.barnesandnoble.com/booksearch/isbnInquiry.asp?ISBSRC=Y&amp;ISBN=0615283659">Barnes&amp;Noble</a>, as well as the <a href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0029NYE9E?tag=leadandmanain-20">Kindle</a> version.  So having published it we need to publicize it.  We got an initial order of 256 from the printer, which arrive one afternoon on my driveway as a mountain of boxes. My wife was immediately skeptical that we&#8217;d ever get rid of them. However, they&#8217;ve been steadily dissapearing. One of the fun things about being an author, is that as one meets new people in business, the books make great gifts. Wev&#8217;e also started making speaking appearances. This week we were at <a href="http://www.sdforum.com/">SDForum</a>, and sold some copies there. So by now the mountain of boxes is rapidly evaporating, and I&#8217;m thinking about getting some more.   Of course right now it&#8217;s all about building some publicity, our biggest problem is that most of our potential readers don&#8217;t yet know the book exists. To that end it was wonderful to see a wonderful review of the book in <a href="http://www.infoworld.com/d/open-source/leading-and-managing-in-silicon-valley-436">Infoworld</a> from Zack Urlocker, which I can&#8217;t resist quoting in full:</p>
<blockquote><p><a href="http://www.infoworld.com/d/open-source/blogs"> <img src="http://www.infoworld.com/sites/infoworld.com/files/imagecache/blogger_header/OpenSources_hdr_blog09_1.jpg" alt="" width="536" height="68" /> </a></p>
<div class="date">May 21, 2009</div>
<h1>Leading and managing in Silicon Valley</h1>
<h2>Management and leadership tips from SugarCRM co-founder Jacob Taylor and other Silicon Valley heavyweights</h2>
<div class="byline">By Zack Urlocker</div>
<p><!--paging_filter-->A new book crossed my desk recently co-authored by SugarCRM co-founder and former CTO <a href="http://thejacobtaylor.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Jacob Taylor</a>. The book is titled &#8220;<a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0615283659?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=valleyofthege-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0615283659">Leading and Managing in Silicon Valley</a><a href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615283659?tag=leadandmanain-20">.</a>&#8221; At 450 pages, it&#8217;s a heavyweight hardcover book, and it sells for $49. (There&#8217;s also<a href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0029NYE9E?tag=leadandmanain-20"> </a><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0029NYE9E?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=valleyofthege-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=B0029NYE9E" target="_blank">a version for the Kindle</a> that costs only $20.)</p>
<p>Despite the serious-sounding title and breadth of topics, it is a very approachable book. Most chapters are 5 to 10 pages in length, and you can just zoom in and read what you need to know at any given time rather than from start to finish. The idea is that the book is intended to provide a road map for an engineer or engineering manager who wants to progress in their career to a CTO or a VP of engineering role. There are sections of the book focused on product definition, project management, managing people, working with executive staff, and practical matters like budgeting and IP issues.</p>
<p>For many engineering managers, this is resource that will be on their desk and referred to whenever they are trying to expand their career. In short, it&#8217;s what the authors wished they&#8217;d know earlier in their careers, and they are handing down this information to make it easier for the next generation, which I think is pretty admirable. Despite the hefty price tag, the authors aren&#8217;t hoping to get rich off this book: They&#8217;re donating the money to charity.</p></blockquote>
<p>We&#8217;re also getting nice feedback from other readers, so we hope the book will strike a chord with more and more readers.</p>
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		<title>Mindfulness considered, every day</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2009 20:31:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I was just reading a wonderful post on Zen Habits entitled The Mindfulness Guide for the Super Busy: How to Live Life to the Fullest that really captures a theme I&#8217;ve been exploring a lot lately, which is the importance of being mindful.  Many of us spend much our time not noticing where we are, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was just reading a wonderful post on <a href="http://zenhabits.net">Zen Habits</a> entitled <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2009/04/the-mindfulness-guide-for-the-super-busy-how-to-live-life-to-the-fullest/">The Mindfulness Guide for the Super Busy: How to Live Life to the Fullest</a> that really captures a theme I&#8217;ve been exploring a lot lately, which is the importance of being mindful.  Many of us spend much our time not noticing where we are, because we&#8217;re always busy thinking about the next thing we&#8217;re going to do. If we always think about tomorrow, we never really are aware of today.  I&#8217;ve noticed that this is a terrible habit because it really interferes with one&#8217;s ability to have a meaningful conversation, or simply enjoy all the good things around one,  because one just isn&#8217;t paying attention.   It&#8217;s very hard really to be mindful, because one does have so many thoughts, and often these thoughts are useful and important.  The trick is to notice when one is thinking, and make a conscious decision to either return to the moment or continue with the thought.  If one practices one can focus the mind, on either observing intently or thinking intently.  Doing this is a little opposed to the popular habit of multitasking, but the skeptic in me says that a lot of multitasking is simply doing a bunch of things in a somewat mediocre or sketchy way.  If you really want to talk to someone, give them ALL your attention. To listen to a concert,  just LISTEN to the music. And if you want to design an algorithm,  JUST think about that algorithm. This discipline can really improve the quality of your life and thoughts.</p>
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		<title>My book is published!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Apr 2009 16:57:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>tomh</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>After two years of work, Leading and Managing in Silicon Valley has been published! We&#8217;re so excited!</p> <p>I belong to a group called the VPE/CTO Community of Practice, which is an organization for Engineering VP&#8217;s/CTOs/directors whichg gathers on a monthly basis to listen to speakers, exchange ideas, and eat and drink fine wines.  We decided [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>After two years of work, <a href="http://leadingmanagingsiliconvalley.com/">Leading and Managing in Silicon Valley</a> has been published! We&#8217;re so excited!</p>
<p>I belong to a group called the <a href="http://www.communityofpractice.net/">VPE/CTO Community of Practice</a>, which is an organization for Engineering VP&#8217;s/CTOs/directors whichg gathers on a monthly basis to listen to speakers, exchange ideas, and eat and drink fine wines.  We decided at some point it would be fun to write a book, because the CIO organization we are modeled on also wrote a book.  So we got started. As it turned out, only some of the members of the club were interested in working on the book, but we dug in and started making progress. We wrote the book purely collaboratively using a free wiki, <a href="http://www.pbwiki.com">PbWiki</a>. One interesting effect of that is that you can&#8217;t tell who wrote what &#8211; we all worked on it all.   Anyhow, we&#8217;re done now, and we think it came out nicely.</p>
<p>The book talks about anything a senior engineering leader might want to know, always from a management perspective. We cover a lot of the topics that are encountered everyday in a company, but are almost never written down anywhere. We particularly avoided idealizing, and only telling success stories. Many of us wind up working in companies populated with human beings who have flaws; therefore figuring out how survive and thrive in the real world, where people are imperfect and make mistakes is crucial. So our stories are realistic &#8211; warts and all, only the names have been changed to protect the innocent!</p>
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		<title>The Power of Simplicity</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Mar 2009 03:29:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>tomh</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve beenr really inspired by Leo BaBauta&#8217;s blog Zen Habits (http://zenhabits.net) lately. There&#8217;s a handful of books and the like that have moved me over the years, such as Pirsig&#8217;s Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, and Buckminster Fuller&#8217;s Critical Path, that have profoundly moved me. Leo&#8217;s writings are also having a big impact [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve beenr really inspired by Leo BaBauta&#8217;s blog <a href="http://zenhabits.net/ ">Zen Habits</a> (<a href="http://zenhabits.net/ ">http://zenhabits.net</a>) lately. There&#8217;s a handful of books and the like that have moved me over the years, such as Pirsig&#8217;s <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Zen-Art-Motorcycle-Maintenance-Inquiry/dp/0061673730/?tag=widgetsamazon-20">Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance</a>, and Buckminster Fuller&#8217;s <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Critical-Path-R-Buckminster-Fuller/dp/0312174918/?tag=widgetsamazon-20">Critical Path</a>, that have profoundly moved me. Leo&#8217;s writings are also having a big impact on me. His main thesis is that one of the main causes of stress and unhappiness in our life is complexity &#8211; our lives are full of too much stuff and too many activities.  Even if these things are very nice taken one at a time, our plates are too full, and the mere act of simplifying our lives by itself will make us much happier. He suggests that by focusing on a few things, and really appreciating them, we will get more out of life than by cursorily glancing at a lot of stuff.</p>
<p>For example, if you move to a smaller house, you have less debt, which already reduces stress.  Since you also have less room, you will have to get rid of some of your junk. Then you&#8217;ll have less stuff to maintain. Soon everything becomes a whole lot easier and more worry free. Fact is, for most of us, when we were young we didn&#8217;t have all that stuff, and life was good, but as we get older we accumulate mountains of stuff. And it&#8217;s not just physical possessions. It&#8217;s also  activities, habits, lifestyle choices. It  piles up higher and higher. Sift through it and ditch what isn&#8217;t totally necessary. The more you do it, the lighter life becomes.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been thinking how I can use technology to declutter one important part of my life. If I digitize my music and store it on hard disk, and move books more to the kindle model, soon I don&#8217;t need piles of book shelves. Then I also don&#8217;t need rooms with wall space for the book shelves. In fact the collection becomes portable. I can copy the music disks and run a copy when I&#8217;m in Shanghai. My world becomes virtualized &#8211; and the space requirements drastically reduced.   Really the thing to do is to evaluate all aspects of our life from this perspective.</p>
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